June 2012
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ifyouveeverbeeninlove asked: I HOPE YOU'RE OKAY. Just kidding, I know you're a badass and can handle it. I love reading your blog. I've started talking to more people about the idea of delving more into sexuality and disability. It's pretty interesting, because while most react with the typical, uh, what the fuck I've never thought of that, some of them are actually pretty interested.
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Cripple Fabulous Life: Sign Language BAN imposed... →
retrogradewaters:
pleakleyispretty:
lefthandofsatan:
deliciouskaek:
deafmuslimpunx:
I love how the school threatened to suspend the girl while refusing to address the audist bullies who bullied her and other girls for using American Sign Language.
Go fuck yourself, Stonybrook School.
Via ABC News:
School…
I hope those assholes get sued for everything they can.
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No dildo no
katisconfused submitted:
Oh my god you are perfect.
I am going to use this for everything.
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Anonymous asked: but what gender are you really?
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katisconfused replied to your post: queerhairyvag replied to your post: What is your…
Now I will forever picture anon conversations with you as an upside-down wheelchair telling a dildo “no dildo no”.
And then my credibility just exploded
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artoftransliness:
Genderqueer Links and Books
gqid:
subtlecluster:
Genderqueer Links and Books
The following are link and book recommendations, all evaluated myself, as helpful resources that relate to genderqueer and non-binary concepts and identities. If there is a resource you would like to suggest, please use the GQID submit form (select Submit a Link from the drop-down or copy and...
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queerhairyvag replied to your post: What is your sexual orientation and what is your gender identity?
y is ur sister’s dildo asking you personal Qs what is going on
No dildo no
kiss-my-aspergers replied to your post: What is your sexual orientation and what is your gender identity?
Preferred gender pronouns, then?
I don’t really have a preference, sometimes I will use one set of binary...
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Anonymous asked: What is your sexual orientation and what is your gender identity?
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girljanitor asked: I think that the question about white autistic people was really more of a "why do white people feel entitled to everything" question. Autism in this case is just kind of incidental. This is an important thing because I have seen people who expect autism to be an excuse for racism, like we don't know any better. NOT the case at all. I'm an autistic mixed POC, and I've...
May 2012
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Anonymous asked: why do white autistic people feel entitled to everything?
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tarotblades-deactivated20120802 asked: I love your blog so much. I'm so glad I found it. I was born with a very mild form of Cerebral Palsy (Left Side Hemiplegia). You blog is awesome. Thank for making it and raising awareness!
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kiss-my-aspergers replied to your post:
no shut up you are the queen of my heart ilu
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kiss-my-aspergers replied to your post:
GDI WHY ARE YOU SO ADORABLE
…are you confused?
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Anonymous asked: Do you think it's normal for someone to become a masochist after a severe accident?
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TONGUE VIBRATORS! →
mysexrocket:
My Sex Rocket has the latest selection of safe and fun tongue vibrators to make your sexy time a little sexier! Taste the pleasure!
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katisconfused replied to your post: hey hope u die slowly and painfully piece of shit
i think these people are just fishing for gifs.
If that’s the case that is very fucked up and those people should reassess what they’re doing with their lives.
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Anonymous asked: hey hope u die slowly and painfully piece of shit
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Anonymous asked: May I ask what kind of chair you use or is that rude? If it is, ignore this question and go have a cookie instead.
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Anonymous asked: Do you have any resources for dealing with disapproving parents and society in a relationship between a disabled and an abled person? I couldn't find anything from Google. I want to know other couple's experiences too. (I can come out of anon in private if you want. This is a bit sensitive right now.)
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oppangangnamseutayil-deactivate asked: I have to say, I wasn't exactly sure what to expect from this blog at first after seeing the title, but I have no regrets in following it now. This is just perfect. I was getting so sick of all of the ableist bullshittery that somehow made its way to tumblr and this is probably the best fuck off to it I've seen.
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soultired asked: I'm glad you're critical of the safe space network blog. It really pissed me off, what they did. Screw those anons.
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fuckthedisabled:
Do not attempt to answer blog questions and dye your hair at the same time.
You will ruin everything.
While I was cleaning up my desk/ floor I realized that my sister’s dildo was hanging out on my desk (where it seems to spend a good portion of its time) and it was just staring at me like
‘wow you made a fucking mess dude’
‘Yeah I know. Don’t...
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struggles2survive asked: i had laser treatments on my leg for years/ when some people front/ that leg hurts like it's being lasered again/ so you can already tell our nerves are fucked up/ maybe this is why any touch in the groin area is so painful?/ oh/ are you plural positive? (livingplural tumblr has definitions)
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Anonymous asked: safe space network really is a good blog though, they are helping so many people so don't be so quick to judge ;)
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insulin-jizz asked: In reply to the type1 diabetic looking for advice concerning their diabetes+sex. I as a type1 diabetic i make sure my partner knows that im have this condition and the severity of it. Also you should know your limits with your BS+sex yourself but i find i cant climax if im dropping so i always make sure my bs are ok if im frisky. When people ask or notice the scars/bruises/tubing on me i just give...
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Do not attempt to answer blog questions and dye your hair at the same time.
You will ruin everything.
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Anonymous asked: i like this blog and you. you are obviously perfect for a mentally disturbed individual such as myself. and one who is also physically disabled. let us join hands and frolic (to the best of our abilities) through some sort of meadow in celebration.
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Anonymous asked: So my sister has paralyzed from the waist down all her life. She is 25 now. I made a joke once not too long ago about "guys thinking girls peed out their butts" and she said "but we do" in a rather serious tone. She is helped w/ going to the bathroom, but I always thought she had anatomy or sex ed in school which explained a girl's set up, but apparently she didn't....
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Anonymous asked: I like this blog but not you. You are obviously seriously mentally disturbed and should seek help.
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ahumancuriosity asked: I wonder if the anon thinks we should kill all the soldiers who have fought for this country and have come back from combat disabled? What about people who are disabled who don't get financial assistance and pay for everything themselves, there for not a "burden" to society or making society pay for them to live?
You poor things, disabled people are invading your special “real important people” space.
Here have some sympathy,
Have a whole truck of sympathy,
Here get run over by the sympathy truck.
Now we all feel better.
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andromedalogic asked: CONGRATS ANON YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT EVOLUTION, NATURAL SELECTION, DARWIN'S ACTUAL THEORIES, PROBABLY ALL OF BIOLOGY, OR BASIC HUMAN RESPECT
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Anonymous asked: from an evolutionary standpoint, natural selection/survival of the fittest, disabled people shouldn't exist and we shouldn't have to pay for them. the reason that disabled people are ignored in feminist spaces and other spaces is because they aren't important, and they should not be prioritized over productive citizens.
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Anonymous asked: Hello! I'm a type 1 diabetic- I was wondering if you/any of your followers had any suggestions for how to deal with tubing, sites, scars, and low blood sugar during sex? Also when people react with "Agh you have a hole in your body" when they see your site...how do you even respond to that? I just freeze up at the moment... Thank you! (I'm sort of too shy to post this on the...
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Anonymous asked: Do you know of any sources for reading about dating and disabilities? I'm 19 and in a wheelchair and have never dated.
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Anonymous asked: My mother feels the need to talk about my brother's disability to EVERYONE as if it is some deadly disease that should be prevented. We have asked her several times to stop and explained that this was hurtful. She always just replies that people should know how to treat and possibly prevent his disability. How can we get her to understand without calling our mother every name in the fucking...
No one wants to talk to me in the middle of the night; they’re sleeping or something.
I have bad friends.
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Yesterday at the Office
Me: *tweaks nipples* You like that? Huh?
Client: What are your scars from?
Me: *glares at him and continues tweaking nipples*
Client: It looks like maybe a knife? Was it a knife?
Me: Sure. *tweaks nipples harder, glares harder*
Client: Who did that to you?
Me: Your mother. *spits in his face again*
The next time a client deigns to interrupt my scenes by asking me rude and invasive questions about my body, it's going to go like this instead:
Client: Hey, what are your scars from?
Me: *pulls razor blade out from under tongue* Are you asking because you'd like some too?
[For those who may be confused about the tags, let me just clarify for you that those of us who are disabled and those of us who are sex workers constantly deal with people feeling like they're entitled to know irrelevant details about our bodies. When you're a disabled sex worker, it's that much worse.]
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autumn-and-eve:
Rachael is starting a blog that is aiming to be an aggregated critique of western feminism as it exists today. We’re specifically looking for a few women of color and disabled people who have strong opinions on western feminism and feel like they would be able to contribute to a blog of this nature - elaborating on where feminism fails to be accountable for racism, white...
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goawaybitchxx-deactivated201305 asked: By that logic, disabled people with bad attitudes are THE MOST DISABLED PEOPLE OF ALL..
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http://fuckthedisabled.tumblr.com/post/23776089154/... →
humandoodad asked:
Ugh. I had an hour + long argument with a guy about whether I was too smart to have a learning disability where he started to cry because he hated how I’d ‘accepted this label’ and knew I was ‘better than that’. I have no idea how to combat it without making unfair comparisons to more visible disabilities (“would you say this to a blind...
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humandoodad asked: Ugh. I had an hour + long argument with a guy about whether I was too smart to have a learning disability where he started to cry because he hated how I'd 'accepted this label' and knew I was 'better than that'. I have no idea how to combat it without making unfair comparisons to more visible disabilities ("would you say this to a blind person for saying that...
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mouthynaut-deactivated20120628 asked: I don't want to be that person who forgets disabled people. I want my blog to be inclusive to all types of women. And yes, queerhairyvag reminded me before I changed it. I screwed up by letting myself forget to mention disabled people, and I just wanted to apologize to the disabled community for doing that. I also didn't think you were attacking me. I'm glad you pointed it out,...
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I recently switched onto several new medications so if I start to say something that makes no fucking sense at least one of you is morally obligated to punch me in the face.
Thanks love you.
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valiumpoetics asked: I have severe dyscalculia, a learning disability that basically prevents me from understanding anything more complex than basic mathematics, but my LD only applies to math. Because I am generally well-spoken and eloquent, people tend to not understand why I identify as disabled. They will say things like "How can you be disabled? You seem smart", or else tell me I'm not...
mouthynaut-deactivated20120628 asked: I saw your reblog of my post and I don't know if you saw mine with your input, but it said this: "I actually reblogged my post already to include disabled people before you posted this. I apologize for not putting it in the first time. My mistake." So again, I really apologize. I hope I didn't offend.
saucyshepirate asked: This might be an unpopular opinion. But I think that those on disability have no business having children to use more government funds. I am on disability myself and it just seems selfish to have a child and not be able to have at least my spouse pay for the care of that child. I understand accidents happen. But there are people out there having children knowing they can take advantage of that...
