Fuck the Disabled: Archive

Fuck the Disabled

December 2011

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burningweird: ladygoggle: fuckthedisabled: gimpunk: Any cool New Years parties you can’t attend because it isn’t wheelchair accessible? I hear IHOP is open all night and they have parking for you right up front. I don’t get invited to the cool New Years parties anymore. Apparently running… I have drawn a picture of party activity. Ok, that’s awesome. I actually have a hat...

Although sexual difﬁculties are common among the population as a whole, multiple sclerosis (MS) can bring about particular problems for both men and women whatever gender. Not everyone with MS will experience sexual problems and, as with other MS symptoms, it is impossible to predict who will be affected and how long symptoms may last. One of the reasons for sexual difﬁculties being more...

Fuck the Disabled: ladygoggle: fuckthedisabled:... →

burningweird: ladygoggle: fuckthedisabled: gimpunk: Any cool New Years parties you can’t attend because it isn’t wheelchair accessible? I hear IHOP is open all night and they have parking for you right up front. I don’t get invited to the cool New Years parties anymore. Apparently running… I usually have no desire to go to new years parties but this one sounds fun. I want to watch...

ladygoggle: fuckthedisabled: gimpunk: Any cool New Years parties you can’t attend because it isn’t wheelchair accessible? I hear IHOP is open all night and they have parking for you right up front. I don’t get invited to the cool New Years parties anymore. Apparently running over the drunk people is not a sanctioned New Years game. Bowling for Tipsy People. Yes. The only sporting...

gimpunk: Any cool New Years parties you can’t attend because it isn’t wheelchair accessible? I hear IHOP is open all night and they have parking for you right up front. I don’t get invited to the cool New Years parties anymore. Apparently running over the drunk people is not a sanctioned New Years game.

“I find it astoundingly privileged when anti-s/m people talk about how, for...”

– Amanda Forest Vivian, “Hurt, Power, and Disability.” The link goes to an excellent, excellent post about what BDSM can mean to people with disabilities. (via neurodivergentsexuality)

Anonymous asked: Is there anything I can do to win you over?

Anonymous asked: Christyleighstewart might have to watch her back... ;)

christyleighstewart asked: I like you, let's get married.

The Light Sailor: Some support would be nice right... →

100lbsailor: I’ve just finished a phone call from overseas. Actually, it got cut off and I wasn’t able to call them back for some reason. Before the conversation got cut short, my mother was warning me not to get pregnant now that Mr. and I are living together. (Recap: Mr. uses crutches and has had anatomical… Wouldn’t it be nice if family members took the time to educate...

Transabled.org →

fugue-stasis: megachiropteran: youarenotyou: therapsida: unknowablewoman: Yeeeeepp. These people exist. I well remember the first time I discovered I wasn’t the only one feeling this way. I had a long discussion that evening with Sue, who told me about her desire to be paralysed. From there, I started looking around the ‘net for more information about wheelchairs, wannabes (this is...

fuck yeah sex education: Let's Talk About Sex →

butyoudontlooksick: Okay, so I am going to apologize in advance, because in this post, I am not holding back. I don’t exactly know who reads this blog (uh, hi mom?) so I’m sorry if it is TMI, or you find it offensive. The point of this blog is to share stories, pain, and gripes and to help…

Ableism in Glee: “I will try to fix you” is not...

firstrisingvibes: queerdanceparty: Trigger Warning: ableism, abuse, rape culture. I wrote this article because a recent episode of Glee included terrible messages about how people with mental health conditions exist within their relationships, especially romantic relationships. This is a topic that’s really close to my persynal experience, so I felt I needed to write about it to prevent my...

Disabled World: The G-Spot Location →

thesexuneducated: The article uses cis heteronormative language but does provide good information on the g-spot. I would just like to clarify that vagina’s are not exclusive to “women” nor is the only other option for vaginal penetration a penis. Does any one else have a good link on g-spot information that is more inclusive?

How to Write about Cripples

Be sure to include words such as ‘inspiring’, ‘courageous’, or ‘tragic’ throughout the passage. When lacking a sufficient adjective to describe the individual, simply deposit any one of these words or equivalent synonyms. In your text, be sure to treat cripples at large as a homogeneous group, and make references and comparisons to media-popularized cripples...

buildyourlifeforyou asked: i think intrusive-wheelchair-justification-inquiring anon is just waiting to find a crippled with some awesome story like they climbed mount everest and fell off the top and broke their spine.

buildyourlifeforyou: if you really wanna talk about why i’m in a wheelchair come talk to me as yourself. no hate. Oh look! Intrusive-wheelchair-justification-inquiring anon is back! We all missed you so much!

'Overcoming' Is Not a Moral Obligation →

incurablehippie: flutterflyinvasion: Society demands that we keep overcoming, overcoming, overcoming. But we don’t have to. Nowhere is it written that to be a really real human you have to brute force your way through your limits. Nowhere is it written that not doing so makes you less worthy. For most people, constantly refusing to acknowledge that you have limits is seen as a problem. We...

Reblog If You Support Misa on Wheels!!!

epic-fantasy: “My biggest tips for cosplay are to choose a character you love and to never let anything stand in your way. If anyone has a problem with you cosplaying because of skin color, weight, or disability, then they are the only one with a problem. If you are having fun and loving what you do, never let anyone get you down. You are perfect the way you are!” ♥ Misa on Wheels ...

buildyourlifeforyou: Today my mom showed a family friend my senior pictures. Apparently she cried at one of the one’s that I was out of my chair for. According to my mom, because “well, she knows how crippled you are”. Really? That doesn’t even make sense. Anyone who cares about me doesn’t cry over the fact that I’m disabled, because that doesn’t define me. I thought you knew me better. It’s...

Gimpunk: Good Mourning’s anthology of romantic... →

gimpunk: Good Mourning’s anthology of romantic stories with disabled characters is accepting work for five more days so PLEASE try to get something in. Even if it isn’t perfect you will be able to clean it up with the editor even after the deadline…and don’t forget this is a PAYING gig. If you are looking forward to getting a copy you should only have to wait one more month! Maybe I can get...

The last time cripples on public transport came up (the part about a bus, and those damn slow wheelchair people!) my friend had an excellent suggestion of what these people should do if they are bothered by cripples on public transport. You have legs that work. Walk. Too far? Well the argument I always hear from healthy people when I can’t do something is “x person with your...

The Outsiders: Sex Hotline- Er...Helpline.

Talking to professionals Sexual pleasure and desire are subjects that health professionals rarely raise. Research suggests that most doctors think that the patient will bring up the subject of sex if they have any concerns. There is help available, and if your doctor doesn’t mention it, you should ask. If you find it difficult, give this leaflet to your specialist or doctor. Good luck. Any...

HERE ARE SOME BODY POSITIVE BLOGS

femmesandfamily: raggedyanndy: This is by no means a comprehensive list! If you reblog you should add some more! vanityisasocialconstruct plusmodelmagazine chubbyguyswag fuckyeahchubbyfashion fuckyeahchubbybutches fatpeopleofcolor fatgirlsguide chubster lovelyfashionplus and of course FUCKYEAHFATPOSITIVE (If you’re wondering why I rarely post pictures of hot random fat persons,...

Girl in a wheelchair: Why are you in a wheelchair? →

girl-in-a-wheelchair: Do any other wheelchair drivers hear this a lot? It always amazes me how people, usually those without any impairments at all, feel entitled to ask this and pry into your life. Does anyone else find that the answer “I can’t walk” (or “I can’t walk far” or “I can’t walk without pain”) is deemed to be insufficient by the nosy person? Why does anyone feel they have the right...

Anonymous asked: The commentary isn't what's fucking ignorant, did you miss the part where it would cost $15,000 more per taxi just to implement this "accessible" feature? We don't need to specially cater everything for a select group of people at the expense of the rest of the population.

Judge Rules That NYC Cabs Must Be Wheelchair... →

The comments on this article. Are some of the most fantastically ignorant things ever. Ever try getting a cab to go across town in the day? Maybe that wheelchair would be faster!This Judge must live Way Outta Townto not to see how utterly fool-hardy this idea is-1 in 10,maybe-Every Cab?? No Way Jose!! Ever try taking wheelchair around town? Especially a town that you’re...

fuck yeah sex education: asexualeducation: Did you... →

asexualeducation: Did you know this about asexuality? beautifuljohn: OVERVIEW An asexual is someone who does not experience sexual attraction. Unlike celibacy, which people choose, asexuality is an intrinsic part of who we are. Asexuality does not make our lives any worse…

Gimpunk: US Air is a pain in my paralyzed ass. →

crazy8astray: They broke my BRAND NEW wheels, then sent me the wrong replacement ones. Yeah, theyre sort of similiar, except theyre $300 dollars less and have 24 spokes instead of 12 spokes. This is a big deal to me because I need my chair to be as light as possible because I have moderate… This is why I don’t travel…or go outside…or socialize…

I live in this place where:

Bald-old-white-guys represent the entire cripple population. Watch this! Old Bald Male Heterosexual White Old Bald Male Heterosexual White That can’t be right, we have to be better at this diversity thing by now… Not really old Bald? Close enough. Male Heterosexual Still white. Extra Credit: How many of the actors portrayed here are actually disabled? If you...

Double Your Gift to Planned Parenthood! →

fuckyeahplannedparenthood: Donate online now to Planned Parenthood Federation of America and your amount will be matched dollar for dollar. Please take advantage of this if you’re able to!

Sexual Device Manual for Persons with Physical... →

missgingerlee: yousetyourlimits: Support for someone you know with PTSD starts with understanding (sorry it’s kind of a lengthy post) Read More This is helpful on so many levels. So many people just kinda stare at me like I’ve lost my mind when it comes to certain things, and understanding makes all the difference.